The best romance mods for The Sims 4

The Sims 4 has plenty of romance options to enjoy, but sometimes it just isn't enough. There are only so many times you can compliment someone's appearance before you feel compelled. While spam romance options are a classic part of The Sims, sometimes you might want a more realistic story.

Fortunately, The Sims 4 modding community is quite active in all aspects of the game. With mods, you can expand the romantic options available in your game. Here, we're going to take a look at some of the best romance mods in The Sims 4.

Updated on December 22, 2024 by Jacqueline Zalas: Looking to add more romance options to The Sims 4? We've updated this list with a few more mods that shake up the romance in the game and give you plenty of options to choose from.

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Extensive storytelling relationship bits

With the Expanded Storytelling Relationship Bits mode, you can experience a more personal relationship. With this mod, maplebell intended to create a unique relationship. New models now exist, such as “opposite passions”, which comes from a love-hate kiss.

This mod also allows you to set unique relationship “bits”. For example, you can turn the relationship into a bit of a jealous rivalry, and also turn a sim into a secret admiration. The possibilities are endless!

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More fashion kisses

Next up, we have another maplebell mod. This mod expands the kissing options in the game. For example, you can now have a shy kiss as well as a hug followed by a surprise kiss.

This mod is relatively simple, but four new kissing options can add a new dimension to relationships. The creator of this mod also has a second version that adds three extra kisses, including a forehead kiss!

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Collection of RPO Lumpinou mods

Lumpinou's RPO (Relationship and Pregnancy Overhaul) collection of mods consists of many mods that can be used together as well as individually. Currently, this mod pack has 19 different options, from extensive WooHoo options to online dating profiles.

With the Romances and Friendships mod option, you can even set gender preferences and turn off romantic interactions for specific sims. Overall, this collection of RPO mods brings a sense of realism and uniqueness to The Sims 4 that can be refreshing for veteran players.

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Carry and kiss fashion

Carry and Kiss is a very simple mod that does exactly what it sounds like. With this mod, you sim will now have the option to pick up your partner and kiss them. It's an SFW mod that adds a cute kiss interaction to the game (though Khlas says it's NSFW friendly).

Instead of immediately unlocking Carry and Kiss, your Sims should already be romantically involved and experience a first kiss. As such, it serves as a cute and unique way to kiss between a steady couple.

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Mode of caressing the bed

Tired of your Sims feeling flat while you lay in bed? Do they just lie there until morning (with the occasional twist and turn)? Bed-hugging fashion allows your wires to snuggle together while you sleep at night.

This adorable interaction also provides a happy mode that lasts for hours. It only makes sense that cuddling with a loved one would bring happiness! When combined with other mods (like more kisses), you can create a refreshing romance with new interactions.

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Amazing romantic proposal interactions mode

Bidding in The Sims 4 can be exciting, but after seeing dozens of bids, you may tire of the experience. With the amazing romantic proposal interactions mod, you will now have three new interactions. Hand caressing, sitting courtship and surprise courtship.

With Caress Hand and Seated Propose, your SIM can propose to your partner while sitting at a table or bar. This mod is also compatible with beds and hot tubs! Moreover, by having a surprise proposal, you can create a beautiful romantic experience.

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Wonderful Whims Mod

Wonderful Whims is a more SFW version of Wicked Whims (also by TURBODRIVER). With Wonderful Whims, you'll add several new features to The Sims 4, from charm to character effects.

In real life, people have attractive preferences, so why not add that to The Sims 4? Now, your Sims can have unique romantic preferences, such as a preference for long hair or a beard. The mod also adds realistic features such as menstrual cycles and birth control.

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First Love Mod

Love is a precious thing that can begin to bloom from a young age in the form of crushes. With the First Love mod, your sim children can experience the crush and even the anxiety of confession. However, being in love is not quite the same as having a boyfriend/girlfriend. A crush is more like a special friendship.

When a young Sim befriends them enough, they may be able to ask them to be their boyfriend/girlfriend. Overall, this mod adds small changes to the game to make childhood a little more relevant.

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Regency Romance Mod

Are you in the mood for some royal role playing? With Regency Romance, you can get the royal experience. This mod includes new additions such as ballroom dances, scandals, social classes, and the etiquette skill that teaches sims how to send letters correctly and in short bursts.

Regency Romance also adds a Rake feature inspired by Bridgerton. Maud describes this feature as “lovely evil”. [who] “Usually, he feels flirtatious by recalling his past deeds.” The Reformed Rake wish allows you to reform a rake and help them find their mate.

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Sims 4 Romantic Interaction from Sims 3 Mod

If you have a soft spot for romance in The Sims 3, then you're in luck! This simple mod adds the romance options that were in The Sims 3 to The Sims 4. The mod page features 24 new love interactions that have never been in the game before, including Leap into Arms and Dip Kiss.

This may sound simple, but it can help personalize a romance and make it a little more unique than others. Sims have more options to choose from instead of constantly doing the same interaction. I mean, who doesn't want to read Shang Simla?

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Road To Romance Mod

The last point is that we have the road fashion towards romance. This mod adds a whole new skill to the game. romance Without any romance skills, your romantic advances will be a little awkward at first. Additionally, you won't have access to more advanced dating options like talking about exes or giving dating advice.

This mod adds realism to romance, as it is definitely a learned experience. Instead of jumping right in and being attractive, you need to work on your flirting skills. This mod also has advice and online dating!